Bible says christians dating non christians
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Over the course of our ministry, the most common pastoral issue that Tim and I have confronted is probably marriages—either actual or proposed—between Christians and non-Christians.
You can find those passages in abundance, but when someone has already allowed his or her heart to become engaged with a person outside the faith, I find that the Bible has already been devalued as the non-negotiable rule of faith and practice.Instead, variants of the serpent's question to Eve—“Did God really say?” are floated, as if somehow case might be eligible for an exemption, considering how much they love each other, how the unbeliever supports and understands the Christian's faith, how they are soul-mates despite the absence of a shared soul-faith.Having grown weary and impatient, I want to snap and say, “It won't work, not in the long run.Marriage is hard enough when you have two believers who are completely in harmony spiritually.In the words of one woman who was married to a perfectly nice man who did not share her faith: “If you think you are lonely before you get married, it's nothing compared to how lonely you can be AFTER you are married!
” Really, this might be the only effective pastoral approach: to find a man or woman who is willing to talk honestly about the difficulties of the situation and invite them into a counseling ministry with the about-to-make-a-big-mistake unequal couple.
I have a girlfriend that I have been with for over two years. So before I answer your question I just want to ask if you are this confident in your own salvation? This confidence does not come from our effort (“If I am good enough then I’ll be saved!
Just spare yourself the heartache and get over it.” Yet such harshness is neither in line with the gentleness of Christ, nor convincing.
If only I could pair those sadder and wiser women—and men—who have found themselves in unequal marriages (either by their own foolishness or due to one person finding Christ after the marriage had already occurred) with the blithely optimistic singles who are convinced that their passion and commitment will overcome all obstacles.
Even the obstacle of bald disobedience need not apply to them.
Only ten minutes of conversation—one minute if the person is really succinct—would be necessary.