Chemistry of dating
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So--in keeping with my belief that I should be guided by The Golden Rule in dating, and all things--I sent him an email Monday saying: "As much as I enjoyed our time together, I didn't feel that huge, crazy spark--for whatever lamentable and inexplicable reason. I happened to be checking out the next chapter of HOW TO LOVE LIKE A HOT CHICK-- the book that gave us those suggestions about single-person experiences every chick should have--which has been residing on my desk these past few weeks (alongside the two other books I'm reading--WAR+PEACE and WATERMARK).But I'd truly like to get to know you better, as a friend, if you're up for that."Sean O'Sean wrote back to say he HAD felt a spark, and that he didn't think it would be very productive or comfortable to hang again, under the circumstances. Should I have just shut up and gone through with another date? And I noticed a section titled "How to Tell If You Have Chemistry." The authors went on to list with 3 "chemistry cues" ... When you first meet a guy and are in the initial stages of dating, pay attention to what you say to your girlfriends ...
awkward,' then you probably don't have chemistry with this guy--or at least not the kind that will blow your skirt up.Lovelies: Last Thursday, I went on yet another Internet date.The guy was a lawyer with what my father would call a "good Irish name"--let's say his name was Sean O'Shaunessey. I did not feel the red hot pangs of lust for this very nice person, who was perfectly attractive, quite smart, and apparently successful.I actually had quite a nice time--despite being in the throes of that nasty head cold, so that, by the end of the night, I had a nice pile of snotty cocktail napkins on the table, next to my glass. He was interesting, sweet, paid me a few really nice compliments in a way that didn't feel uncomfortable or corny, and I genuinely liked him A LOT as a person. At the end of the date, he asked if I'd be up for a second.I said sure--because the prospective of hanging out again REALLY did seem nice.And that's the kind of chemistry that you, as a Hot Chick, deserve! They continue: "It's easy to find a guy who you'll love to talk to ...
or share a sundae with, but that doesn't necessarily make him your perfect lover.
You want a man who wants to eat that sundae off your hot body, right? Also, I want to be excited about eating that sundae off HIM.
And I thought maybe the second time around, I might feel more turned on.
Since we were both busy that weekend, we agreed to chat Sunday or so to make another plan.
But in the days after the date, I got a few emails from Sean O'Sean, and a "thinking of you" type of text late in the day Saturday ...
and I began to get the feeling he was pretty into it.