Danger signs when dating
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He says he has a busy life and can’t fit a serious relationship into his schedule.” “How do you feel about that? Perhaps Sheila needed me to confirm what her heart was already telling her.
I had a hunch that she already knew the answers to some of her questions. He’s a nice guy and I’ve enjoyed spending time with him. I try to ignore it, but I suspect that would be a problem for us.” “You’re picking up danger signs. But, he told me that he’s had two DUI convictions and still drinks. He is clearly applying the brakes to your relationship, yet wants to take advantage of your vulnerability. I try to tell myself that isn’t a problem, but I’m not so sure.” I watched as Sheila’s eyes avoided mine, evidencing her discomfort. He pushes for a physical relationship even though we’ve talked about that being something I don’t believe in before marriage.” “So, you’ve got concerns? He told me that he liked seeing me, but didn’t really want an exclusive relationship. I had a strong sense that Sheila sensed the danger signals yet had mixed feelings about heeding them. And, he has shared danger signs about his history with alcohol – and the fact that he still drinks.” “This is exactly what my friends tell me. “I like being with him,” she offered enthusiastically. That he wasn’t ready for any kind of commitment, but wants to be physical. But, I don’t want to give up seeing him even though I know there are problems. ” “Actually,” I said, “I’ll bet you’ve given this a lot of thought and have Steve figured out pretty well. Many times we avoid the truth when it goes against our wishful feelings. I was pretty sure I’d hear the same thing from you. Sheila was anxious about her relationship with Steve. God has given us the ability to evaluate the character of a person.With a twinkle of excitement, she shared about the man she had been seeing for the past few months. If you sense danger, if you have doubts about your partner, pull over to the side of the road and seek God’s counsel.
“I have some questions to ask you about the relationship I am in,” she said. Then proceed cautiously, listening to your heart, and you’ll be better prepared to find that someone who's right for you.
“I need professional advice about this situation.” “Tell me about it,” I offered. But, he pushed for a physical relationship without any commitment.
I felt a sudden panic as the sirens blared from somewhere behind me. I noticed the ambulance behind me and pulled onto the shoulder of the road to let them pass. The danger signal warned me to take notice, pay close attention and take immediate action. The Apostle Paul offers a prayer of power and wisdom that could be very helpful to Sheila – and perhaps you.
I quickly scanned the area to see if the alarms screamed from an ambulance or police car? I began to breathe again as I was not in any immediate danger. Danger signals are effective in the wooly world of dating as well. Fifty years old and divorced two years, Sheila was unhappy. “I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.
Recently, a client named Sheila came in to see me to assist her with lingering feelings of discouragement about not finding Mr. Though dressed sharply, this attractive woman has been discouraged in love, time and again. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe.
We agreed to explore what she might be doing wrong and how to correct it. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come” (Ephesians -21). Wisdom is her best tool for dealing with danger signals – red alert sirens.