Sexuality in marriage dating and other relationships a decade review

04-Oct-2015 14:32 by 7 Comments

Sexuality in marriage dating and other relationships a decade review - Online sex

What's more, it trivializes the very real stresses that couples may experience as their sex lives ebb. “Studies have found that married people have more sex than single people, and they also have more varied sex,” says sexual health expert and best-selling author Dr. An average of 61 percent of singles reported that they hadn’t had sex within the past year, compared with 18 percent of married people.Looking specifically at those between the ages of 25 and 59, 25 percent of married people reported that they were still having sex two to three times per week versus less than five percent of singles.

Unfortunately, there isn’t conclusive statistical data comparing the frequency of couples’ sex while they’re dating to the frequency of their sex as a married couple.In the newly-released movie “American Reunion,” the latest installment of the “American Pie” series, one of the major plotlines revolves around Alyson Hannigan’s character, Michelle, who has transformed over the past decade from a sexually adventurous coed -- remember that “one time at band camp”?-- into an overworked mom who’s too exhausted to sleep with her husband, former pie-humper Jim, played by Jason Biggs.The film is just the latest illustration of the by-now-clichéd scenario: man and woman get married, man and woman start losing interest in getting busy every night and, soon enough, man and woman’s formerly hot sex life is as lively as a deflated balloon.some truth to the cliché -- and the seemingly endless wisecracks born out of it -- it doesn't tell the whole story. To look at the statistics about marriage and sex, you wouldn’t even know that there was an issue to begin with. ”Oral sex is also more common among married people.” One of the most comprehensive studies on the subject, which was released in 2010 by the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, confirmed this, compiling statistics on sexual attitudes and habits of 5,865 people between ages 14 and 94.However, it doesn’t take a scientist to understand that, as time passes, their sex lives will take a hit.

It’s human nature to crave novelty, as great thinkers as far back as Pliny the Elder have noted -- it’s what makes new couples want to rip the buttons off each others’ shirts and engage in lingerie-sparked romps until the wee hours of the morning. If your relationship started off hotter, heavier and sweatier than a Florida summer, this sexual shift can be disheartening -- even a little scary -- as you start comparing your married sex life to the one you had early on in your relationship (or to the assumed steamy sex lives of your fellow wedded friends).

But eventually, having access to the same naked body night after night is bound to erode its novelty. This is where the complications about married sex begin: When you start worrying about having sex -- and what that might mean about you, your spouse and your spouse’s attraction toward you.

“Tonight’s the night” becomes “not tonight” -- after all, there’s always tomorrow (and the next night... Sure, plenty of relationship advice books declare that anyone can reignite the spark in their marriage, with a whole spectrum of tips from recreating the courtship mood through role-play to scheduling mandatory date nights.

However, it’s impossible to replicate the passionate, falling-crazy-in-love phase of a relationship. So what if some nights you’d prefer binging on Chinese food and watching “The Biggest Loser” to ripping off each other’s clothes?

Isn’t that what marriage is about -- being forever bound to someone who will love you even when the chow mein you just inhaled saddled you with a massive food baby?

While a couple’s sluggish sex life can create dramatic tension for a movie plotline, in real life the pressure that couples put on themselves to reenact the early days of their love affair can cause more issues than their lack of sex.

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